The Elevation Approach: Harness the Power of Work-Life Harmony to Unlock Your Creativity, Cultivate Joy, and Reach Your Biggest Goals - book cover
Business Culture
  • Publisher : Rodale Books
  • Published : 21 Mar 2023
  • Pages : 272
  • ISBN-10 : 0593580249
  • ISBN-13 : 9780593580240
  • Language : English

The Elevation Approach: Harness the Power of Work-Life Harmony to Unlock Your Creativity, Cultivate Joy, and Reach Your Biggest Goals

"A powerful, innovative plan for finding creative fulfillment and bringing your passions to life."-Marie Forleo, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Everything Is Figureoutable

Make room for your dreams and revolutionize how you manage your time and energy using this groundbreaking framework for finding work-life harmony from an accomplished entrepreneur and business strategist

Throughout her multifaceted career, Tina Wells has always found a way to transform her dreams into reality. She turned a business that she launched at sixteen into an award-winning marketing agency, led boardroom meetings as the youngest (and sometimes only) Black woman in the room, and pursued her childhood dream of traveling around the world.

But all that success came with burnout, and Tina had to rethink how she thought about work and life. The result of her deep thinking and some trial and error, The Elevation Approach presents Tina's four-phase plan, a flexible and foolproof technique that helps you meet your goals without sacrificing joy for productivity and progress. Rather than treating work and life as separate and necessarily opposing forces, The Elevation Approach integrates your personal and professional ambitions, values, and responsibilities at every turn:

• Preparation: Ask the right questions, get curious about the possibilities, and figure out what you have, what you need, and what you can give.
• Inspiration: Expand your beliefs of what's possible-create spaces for mind-wandering, relearn how to pay attention, and collect creative sparks.
• Recreation: Hit reset, make room for rest and play, and when something isn't working, give yourself permission to try something new.
• Transformation: Evaluate the work that you've done, decide whether to stay the course, and celebrate the changes and goals you've accomplished.

Whether you want to start a new business, find time for a new hobby, or reevaluate a relationship, The Elevation Approach can help you make impactful shifts and realize your most cherished dreams-without losing sight of what matters most to you. With exercises featuring writing prompts and worksheets, real-world insights from business leaders and creatives, and "Instant Elevation" practices that ensure your efforts align with your priorities in each phase, The Elevation Approach is a one-stop solution to work-life harmony.

Editorial Reviews

"Tina Wells offers a powerful, innovative plan for finding creative fulfillment and bringing your passions to life. Her brilliant advice will help you open doors and uncover exciting possibilities."-Marie Forleo, author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Everything Is Figureoutable

"Tina Wells has a gift for breaking down information and reframing challenges into solutions. She does just that in her new book, The Elevation Approach. She provides advice in such a personalized way that you feel you are communicating with your best friend. Tina's pragmatic and thoughtful approach to live a more fulfilling and harmonious life is inspirational and truly feels achievable."-Carly Zakin, cofounder and co-CEO of theSkimm

"With The Elevation Approach, Tina Wells will help you forge new paths, stay true to your purpose, and prioritize everything that matters most in your life. Her gentle encouragement, indispensable tools, and motivating stories will give you the confidence to dream big and make big things happen."-Tika Sumpter, actor, producer, and cofounder of Sugaberry

"Tina Wells has delivered us all a great gift: lessons she's learned through decades of success in business in an approachable how-to guide to living your best life. The Elevation Approach will help women of all ages reach whatever goals or dreams they have, no matter how big or small. Not only is the advice great for tackling challenges or kick-starting new adventures, it helps you find joy in the process as you go. It helps us let go of the great illusion of work-life balance, while replacing it with something far richer and more achievable-work-life harmony."-Alexa von Tobel, CFP, founder and managing partner of Inspired Capital, founder of LearnVest, and New York Times bestselling author of Financially Fearless and Financially Forward

"Anyone chasing work-life balance, feeling stuck, or even bewildered about how to achieve true happiness must read The Elevation Approach. It's the rare book that offers practical and actionable advice about how to fashion the life of your dreams."

Short Excerpt Teaser

Chapter 1

The Power of Work-Life Harmony

"Do you ever sleep?"

Whenever someone asks me this question, I tell them the truth: "Yes, I do. At least seven and a half hours per night, nonnegotiable."

I'm usually met with a blank stare. "I just don't see how that's possible. How do you do all the things you do? There's just so much. . . ." These questions usually lead to a conversation about a concept that has become the core of my life: work-life harmony.

Different forms of harmony are around us. For instance, we see it reflected in nature every day. I love the outdoors, and I've been super-fortunate to travel to Africa several times. One of the things that struck me on my first safari in Kenya was that nature was just . . . in sync. I sat for hours one morning watching hundreds of zebras and wildebeests migrate from Kenya to Tanzania. They knew where to go and when to go. Another day I watched two cheetahs eat their lunch while vultures nearby waited patiently for the leftovers. When the cheetahs walked away, the vultures descended on the remainders, and it was as if nature had brought its own clean-up crew! Similarly, I picked up on these unspoken rhythms, rising easily with the first sign of light and growing tired when the sun went down. Seeing how everything in nature moves in continuous, complementary ways made me realize how we humans can experience this harmony in our own lives-but how easy it can be for our lives to fall out of tune with that harmony.

Burnout: Everybody's Doing It!

After burning myself out for the first time, when I was twenty-seven years old, I decided to take my first proper vacation since launching my company eleven years prior. When my friend invited me to join her in Miami, she said my laptop wasn't invited. But I didn't think it was possible to unplug: Did she really expect me to not check my email for seven whole days? When we arrived, I was anxious and scatterbrained. I realized I didn't even know how to stretch out by the pool and relax.

I once approached work with an all-or-nothing attitude. I would get up early and grind away until the late hours. Sure, I had to sleep, but I kept the other sixteen hours of the day, plus the weekends, available for work. To me, this was just the cost of doing business. You see, I was not just the CEO of my own business but also a well-known teen entrepreneur. The story of how I founded my marketing agency followed me everywhere. By the time I was twenty-five, articles about me had appeared in major women's magazines, including a cover story in O, The Oprah Magazine. I am so grateful for every experience I had, and I was so blessed to have built a great company, but it was sometimes overwhelming. I went from teen entrepreneur to college student athlete and writer at the school paper, to running an office in New York City after college. I kept barreling ahead.

To be an entrepreneur, you are expected to dedicate yourself to your work, especially when hustle culture was the paradigm for success in American business and "girlbosses" were glorifying the grind. And for a Black woman in business, the self-applied pressure to be twice as good as my counterparts propelled me to work even harder. I was one of the few Black entrepreneurs in marketing at this time. I knew the spotlight was on me, and so I wanted not only to represent my family and my community but also to make them proud.

When things got really busy at Buzz Marketing Group, I just kept going. Instead of delegating the work when different clients launched big projects at the same time, I made myself even more accessible and I dug in deeper. However, that extra dedication came at a cost. I skipped taking vacations because I needed to go on back-to-back work trips. I neglected doctor's appointments and gave up my beloved daily walks. There just was no time for any of that.

Burnout is a familiar experience, particularly now and especially among young women. We've been socialized to give all of ourselves to others and to stretch ourselves to satisfy everyone else's needs before our own. At home, we're constantly serving our families to make sure they're cared for. For those of us who work outside the home, we're likely to volunteer for extra tasks, even when our plates are already full. If a deadline must be met, chances are a woman on the team has volunteered to work those extra hours to ensure that the deadline gets met.

Traditionally, our culture has celebrated working hard for the money (cue that catchy tune by Donna Summer!). For decades, women have fought to gain an equal footing in the workplace, and now that we've come ...